asylum: Why the friendzone is bullshit and self-proclaimed "nice guys" are misogynists

absinthedisco:

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angels-and-angles:

As defined by urban dictionary, the friendzone is…

“When you are expected to support a girl you really like while she searches for a smarter, richer, and more handsome boyfriend. There is little you can do without feeling like a dick. All in all, one of the meanest…

I’m sorry, but this is really being unfair.

Unfair to whom?

I apologize and stand corrected. It’s been a long day, and I’ve re-read it after some sleep —  it makes sense now.

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   Works also with gay and lesbian “friendzones” and yes, if the interested party leaves they could be seen as bastard for...

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   When you are yourself friend-zoned, it sucks. So all reactions to it are to an extent justified. Nobody thinks...

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    This is the reason hardly any of my past male “friends” have stuck around.

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    -_- First off let me say that...don’t even agree...your...

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    While I wonder call them the WORST misogynists, the whole notion of “I’m treating you like a human being because...

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